Would you leave your husband if he hates your mother?

I wouldn't leave my husband if he hated my mother. But, if he was unreasonable, rude, condescending and mule headed I would. Not because he hates my mother, but because we would be in conflict over something and he would refuse to talk it over. Him hating your mother shows many more relationship problems that at a glance, but don't be hasty, marriage is important and a misunderstanding isn't something to break vows over.