Would you fancy me? - please look at my profile picture!?

I know I am on the porky side and at the moment having trouble attracting men because of it....what do you think? My last relationship ended after we'd been out for a meal when I'd eaten far too much and my partner even commented that my trousers looked exceptionally tight, when I stood up to leave, they burst open. My stomach was so red and I couldn't get my trousers back on. It was v mortifying, not helped by another bloke who I said I had looked fit to burst and he had actually placed a bet with his mate, on if my trousers would in fact burst!! My ex was not a fan of big women or of large bellys - are any men? Please see my profile picture for an idea? I have got quite a few rolls of fat!! Please be honest, I need it as a motivator to do something or accept that I am this size and men need to love me know matter how podgy I am!